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The Undefeated Fund

Fighting for Children. Fueled by Love.Born from grief, built on purpose. We support childhood cancer research, protect children globally, and spread kindness — one charm at a time.
100% reaches the causes
1 Charm Ripple of Hope
Every Gift Honors Our Loved Ones
Our MissionLiving Undefeated Mission Our Story – What began as our way to heal after losing a loved one to childhood cancer has grown into a community rooted in kindness, purpose, and giving—helping others find meaning through loss and hope through connection. Our Mission – To support grieving families and inspire kindness and hope. Through our Undefeated Charms and community, we remind people they are never alone and help them find purpose through giving. Our Goal – To raise funds for impactful, carefully vetted causes and ensure every contribution makes a real difference — 100% of your donation reaches the causes we fund, with processing fees covered separately. The Idea – To share free Undefeated Charms that inspire acts of kindness and giving. Each charm honors Austin’s legacy, spreads joy, and reminds others that even small acts can make a lasting impact.
Austin smiling from a hospital bed
Found a Charm?@TheUndefeatedFundPlease share on Instagram or TikTok. Follow us, share your story and see where charms travel. Pass forward the joy with your followers. #LivingUnDefeated
Support Our MissionSupport our mission by contributing to families in need. Your donation helps fund childhood cancer research, provide relief for struggling families, and spread kindness and hope in the community. Every contribution makes a meaningful difference and brings us closer to a brighter future. Give once or monthly, whichever suits you. Every gift goes toward supporting our causes.Give once or monthly, whichever suits you. You can change or cancel a monthly gift yourself at any time.Donate Now
Austin's Story"Never give up. Live life undefeated."— The Undefeated Fund FamilyAustin was more than a fighter—he was a light. From the moment you met him, you felt his energy, laughter, and love for life. Austin had a deep, adventurous soul and found joy in many passions. He treasured time with family and friends, loved nature, fishing, and swimming, and found freedom on his skateboard and bike. A true creator, he loved cooking, gaming, and bringing people together with humor and love. Even through four cancer diagnoses, Austin lived with unwavering humor, joy, and generosity.
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A deep navy book cover reading A Reason to Get Up, with the subtitle Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning, and what that book can and cannot do after somebody dies.

Guide one · 7 pages

A Reason to Get Up

Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning, and what that book can and cannot do for you after somebody dies. Who Frankl actually was, what he actually argued, and the famous quote that is not his.

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These are the books we read and the things we did after we lost Austin. Not advice and not therapy — an honest account of what helped us, and what the research actually says about each of it. Every statistic in them carries a source and a year.

A deep navy book cover reading The Circling, with the subtitle The Power of Now, and what is actually happening when you cannot stop going over it.

Guide two · 9 pages

The Circling

The Power of Now, and what is actually happening when you cannot stop going over it. Includes the part no grief guide prints: meditation is not risk-free, and who should be careful.

A deep navy book cover reading Give It Away, with the subtitle Why doing something for somebody else, expecting nothing back, appears to do something for you.

Guide three · 11 pages

Give It Away

Why doing something for somebody else, expecting nothing back, appears to do something for you. With a verified list of places that will take you this week, and the ones that will ask you to wait a year.

A deep navy book cover reading The First Year, with the subtitle What has to be done, what it actually looks like, and fifty things that might help.

Guide four · 16 pages

The First Year

The practical one. What actually has to be done, what the months afterward really look like, and fifty things that might help — each one labeled for whether there is evidence behind it.

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