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      <image:title>September is over. We&apos;re still here.</image:title>
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      <image:title>The casserole-to-actual-help ratio</image:title>
      <image:caption>A lidded cream stoneware casserole dish with a speckled glaze and a small painted wildflower, set down on a wooden table in front of a curtained window.</image:caption>
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